By JenRene Owens
“He has made everything beautiful in its time and that there is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under Heaven. “ Ecclesiastes 3:1,11.
So what is Divine Patience?
Thank God for mentors in my life! Well…recently one of my girlfriends informed me that God was placing “divine patience” in me, despite my resistance to receiving it. I’d been going through a tremendously hard time trying to figure out just what God was doing, and WHY it was taking so long. I do not recommend trying to figure out what God is doing. It’s very stressful.
But I believe I now know. In order for God to produce a really BIG piece of fruit, in your life, it has to going through all the cycles of seeding. A seed has to die before it can live. ( see 1 Corinthians 15:36) The coating and protection over the seed has to disintegrate, first. It has to have the right soil, the right amount of sunlight, and the right amount of water in order for it to grow.
Did you know a seed has its own food supply? It also grows down into the ground before it grows up and outward to produce a stem. It has to be rooted, first.
Sometimes God uses patience to help us also endure the same process. Patience is a fruit of the spirit. For God to describe patience as a fruit, is a blessing. (see Galatians 5:22,23) Fruit is defined as “anything produced or accruing; product, result, or effect; return or profit. To enjoy the produce of.” The Bible says against such character, no one can bring a charge.
I recall my waiting period to be full of frustration, feeling stressed and tremendously upset with God. I heard Joyce Meyers say once: “ when you feel frustrated, your flesh is in the way.” To me, that meant there should be less of me, and more of God’s perspective in my life.
So .. to get my flesh out of the way, I decided to simply call a solemn fast. I moved everything – and I do mean everything, out of the way so I could clearly hear from God. My friend who gave me the advice earlier…did something similar. She had been trying to fulfill a dream to do something for years she could not figure out. She said “ once i stopped trying to figure it out…” that’s when God stepped in. This morning I released something to God I could not handle. It felt so much better to not try to figure it out.
So, in the midst of our Red Sea situations… we both pondered a few things. For me, it was my lack of control over it all, and for her the need to receive her harvest- God’s way. I just spoke to her the other day and God answered her prayer. He figured it out. Here’s what she said to me: “So, here I am. Now, I am waiting for His leading on what His next provision will be for me. … Divine patience reminds me that yes, I can make things happen, but when He does it for me, it comes out much better!”
Another valuable piece she taught me was to ‘pay attention to the condition of your heart‘ when you struggle in this manner. She said : “we must be willing to accept the situation as it comes. Especially since it may not be in the way we wanted it or at the time we expected it. Can I be content with His provision if it does not match my expectations? The acceptance of the way things have turned out and are continuing to move is part of the divine patience.” Yes, we still have to “wait on Him” to wait on God to move, but we can believe he will take care of us in the process of it all, and have our best interest at heart.
Wow.. what powerful encouragement today. I believe I will just choose to surrender to the cycle of my seeding process. God know how that miracle takes place much better than I.
Selah.
I Corinthians 15:35-38 The Message Bible
“Some skeptic is sure to ask, “Show me how resurrection works. Give me a diagram; draw me a picture. What does this ‘resurrection body’ look like?” If you look at this question closely, you realize how absurd it is. There are no diagrams for this kind of thing. We do have a parallel experience in gardening. You plant a “dead” seed; soon there is a flourishing plant. There is no visual likeness between seed and plant. You could never guess what a tomato would look like by looking at a tomato seed. What we plant in the soil and what grows out of it don’t look anything alike. The dead body that we bury in the ground and the resurrection body that comes from it will be dramatically different.”
Come back again soon.
Zohnette Sligh
March 17th, 2010 at 6:12 PM
WOW how great was this post. It is so wonderful to know that when we die to the situation and trust God to move in his time, he brings glory to himself, and a beautiful creation flourishes from that seed!!! how awesome. Thanks for that wonderful reminder. Be blessed.
kristene newton
March 20th, 2010 at 8:41 PM
wow wow and wow…..this was for me. I am so frustrated trying to figure out how to get the vision done that God has given me…But I need to be patient and wait on God to fulfill it! Love this post Jen!
Gina
March 21st, 2010 at 10:17 AM
I am SO where you are at in this “process!” I’ve learned patience over the years, and surrender but it seems like I still have a lot to learn!
BTW, this would be a great devotional for my soon to be launched again site… Writer…Interrupted. If you want to contribute, send this to me in an email, along with photo and bio!!!
JenRene
March 21st, 2010 at 10:42 PM
Thanks Gina… I can tell from your blog! ;0) We ALL have a lot to learn. I think that’s the key to staying sober -minded in this process. What does sober minded mean? ( Rational, sensible) It means we surrender our thoughts of all possible outcomes, to God. ( That’s the figuring it out process…) smile. Romans 12:1,2 explains it well – but what what it does in the Message Bible version makes it completely clear… (WOW!!)
(GOOD ADVICE):
“So here’s what I want you to do, God helping you: Take your everyday, ordinary life—your sleeping, eating, going-to-work, and walking-around life—and place it before God as an offering. Embracing what God does for you is the best thing you can do for him. Don’t become so well-adjusted to your culture that you fit into it without even thinking. Instead, fix your attention on God. You’ll be changed from the inside out. Readily recognize what he wants from you, and quickly respond to it. Unlike the culture around you, always dragging you down to its level of immaturity, God brings the best out of you, develops well-formed maturity in you.”
Gina
March 22nd, 2010 at 1:11 PM
Good stuff!
darryl
March 22nd, 2010 at 3:08 PM
I’m so blessed by this word! I summize Divine Patience requires a quick response of “surrender”…it is my experience that whenever I truly surrender God moves so succinctly I am amazed and at great peace!
Thanks JenRene I love you and am praying for your ministry.
Debra Morris
March 24th, 2010 at 1:49 PM
I so enjoyed reading the blog on “patience.” The times in my life that I have turned things over to God and waited on Him, I can testify to the fact that… He does ALL things well!